.However what Astrid does not understand but is actually a fact that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that has pair of sons-- may verify: The truth that your relationship with your parents changes as well as develops as you each grow older, as well as ideally for the better. "Your world centers around [your little ones] when they're infants [and also] it is actually so much work however beautiful," O'Hara points out. "Later, you actually overlook that, considering that then you can not receive all of them to carry out everything you desire them to do, given that they start cultivating their own thoughts, their very own point of views." And also at some point, you wind up in the place O'Hara, whose children remain in their 20s as well as 30s, locates herself now, able to gain from her children. "They are actually only such trendy youthful people," she states. "I'm certainly not their pal, but I like having talks along with all of them and getting to know exactly how they consider life.".